If I Speak

Ash Sarkar and Moya Lothian-McLean sort the personal from the political, tackle listener dilemmas and air their opinions on the frustrations of modern life.

61: Can friendships cross class lines? w/ Natasha Brown
Apr 22, 2025 – 56:02
60: Are we too addicted to convenience?
Apr 15, 2025 – 51:43
59: Does my ex owe me money for the house we renovated?
Apr 8, 2025 – 1:01:16
58: I want to be fun again. Help!
Apr 1, 2025 – 57:01
57: Do you really want to know about your partner’s past mistakes?
Mar 25, 2025 – 1:09:39
56: The one where Moya grills Ash on her new book
Mar 18, 2025 – 1:03:11
55: Joy is an act of resistance… right?
Mar 11, 2025 – 1:02:54
54: Forget the boycott, gimme that brand deal
Mar 4, 2025 – 53:37
53: Getting ‘the ick’
Feb 25, 2025 – 47:04
52: Happy birthday IIS! Now ask us anything…
Feb 18, 2025 – 1:06:25
51: Am I feminine enough for you?
Feb 11, 2025 – 1:00:22
50: The return of the slur
Feb 4, 2025 – 1:03:58
49: We need to see more wrinkles on screen!
Jan 28, 2025 – 1:00:37
48: Is it time to cut off my lying dad?
Jan 21, 2025 – 1:01:28
47: Is the era of public shaming over? w/ Yomi Adegoke at London Podcast Festival
Jan 14, 2025 – 1:22:29
46: Porn is everywhere. How damaging is it really?
Jan 7, 2025 – 1:15:41
45: Surviving end-of-year burnout
Dec 31, 2024 – 1:07:00
44. How to deal with people who can’t deal with you
Dec 24, 2024 – 1:00:53
43: How far would you go to be yourself? w/ Amrou Al-Kadhi
Dec 17, 2024 – 1:01:00
42: Why won’t they just break up?
Dec 10, 2024 – 53:41
41: When do good habits become dark obsessions?
Dec 3, 2024 – 1:01:48
40: Do aesthetic trends offer clues to political shifts?
Nov 26, 2024 – 1:03:36
39: I’m in big trouble! Your dilemmas answered
Nov 19, 2024 – 57:48
38: Why is Andrew Tate’s manosphere so seductive? w/ Matt Shea and Jamie Tahsin
Nov 12, 2024 – 1:11:59
37: Do you believe in ghosts?
Nov 5, 2024 – 56:21
36: Should being a girlboss earn me a break from cleaning?
Oct 29, 2024 – 54:19
35: Help! My scatty friends can’t meet my standards
Oct 22, 2024 – 1:00:20
34: How mean can you be to other people’s kids?
Oct 15, 2024 – 1:04:39
33: What makes you embarrassed to be leftwing?
Oct 8, 2024 – 51:12
32: What makes a house a home?
Oct 1, 2024 – 49:32
31: Why isn’t my best friend excited about my wedding?
Sep 24, 2024 – 58:53
30: Unbothered, moisturised, happy – and ready for a relationship?
Sep 17, 2024 – 1:07:21
A message from Moya…
Sep 10, 2024 – 1:14
29. Has therapyspeak improved our lives?
Sep 3, 2024 – 1:00:27
28: What the hell is a gut feeling, anyway?
Aug 27, 2024 – 58:00
27: I’m in big trouble! Your dilemmas answered
Aug 19, 2024 – 1:04:24
26: I’m so sorry, I’m English
Aug 13, 2024 – 1:11:46
25: I hate the way that you walk, I hate the way that you talk
Aug 6, 2024 – 1:14:24
24: Help! What’s my purpose in life?
Jul 30, 2024 – 1:10:05
23: Surviving your Saturn return
Jul 23, 2024 – 1:05:17
22: How will I know if I really want kids? w/ Renay Richardson
Jul 16, 2024 – 1:21:50
21: What does it take to be effortlessly cool?
Jul 9, 2024 – 54:02
20: Skinny is back in fashion. FFS!
Jul 2, 2024 – 56:24
19: We’re boiling with rage
Jun 25, 2024 – 1:02:29
18: Why does everything feel so disposable?
Jun 18, 2024 – 58:09
17: Feeling seen w/ Nicola Dinan
Jun 11, 2024 – 54:17
16: How do you recover after betrayal? w/ Chimene Suleyman
Jun 4, 2024 – 59:52
15: Dissociation is my superpower
May 28, 2024 – 1:04:32
14: What does it mean to live authentically? w/ Oisín McKenna
May 21, 2024 – 1:11:57
13: I’m the problem, it’s me
May 14, 2024 – 53:09