What They Never Told Us

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Each week Russell IV and Brandi tackle conversations about love, marriage, divorce, family and everything in between. The two reunited high school sweethearts discuss personal stories, differing opinions, and all the things they wish they knew before saying "I do" the first time around. Join these two every week as they have tons of fun unpacking - What They Never Told Us!

Recent Episodes
  • THIS IS NOT GOODBYE...
    May 30, 2025 – 09:31
  • Sexpisode Part 6: Staying Curious
    May 27, 2025 – 01:10:01
  • ASK R&B (LIVE EDITION)
    May 22, 2025 – 01:18:49
  • Ask R&B: Real Relationship Advice for Couples, Singles, and Situationships
    May 20, 2025 – 01:06:21
  • Trust the Process...God Had a Plan!
    May 13, 2025 – 01:11:38
  • Let's Talk Live: Dating After Divorce, Baby Mama's, and Red Flags
    May 9, 2025 – 01:04:03
  • Divorced, and Dating Again
    May 6, 2025 – 01:24:33
  • The Get Back Is Worse!
    May 2, 2025 – 01:15:14
  • Are There Different Levels of Cheating?
    Apr 29, 2025 – 01:17:20
  • Blame It On R&B (LIVE)
    Apr 24, 2025 – 01:11:31
  • Why Can't You Just Apologize??
    Apr 17, 2025 – 58:53
  • The Power of Forgiveness
    Apr 15, 2025 – 01:38:22
  • Pet Peeves & Technical Difficulties (LIVE EPISODE)
    Apr 10, 2025 – 01:17:15
  • You Don't Respect My Boundaries!
    Apr 8, 2025 – 56:53
  • What Are We Doing "Here"? (LIVE Episode)
    Apr 5, 2025 – 52:17
  • Blame It On R&B
    Apr 1, 2025 – 01:38:09
  • When Is Enough, Enough?
    Mar 31, 2025 – 01:01:34
  • Don't Let Your Trauma Define What Intimacy Looks Like...(LIVE Episode)
    Mar 27, 2025 – 55:54
  • The "Sexpisode" Part 5 (We're Not Making Love No More!)
    Mar 25, 2025 – 01:12:59
  • What You Demonstrate, They Will Imitate (LIVE Episode)
    Mar 21, 2025 – 56:48
  • Shhh... The Kids Are Going to Hear Us!
    Mar 18, 2025 – 01:05:53
  • Live Episode: The Last Time
    Feb 23, 2024 – 01:16:04
  • To Have and To Hold
    Feb 19, 2024 – 41:43
  • LIVE Episode: Did Y'all Miss Us?
    Feb 16, 2024 – 01:11:40
  • Is He Flirting with My Wife?! The Law of Attraction Part 2
    Feb 13, 2024 – 01:18:21
  • The Dating Pool Has Piss in It!
    Jan 30, 2024 – 01:41:32
  • Group Text, Phone Sweeps, Sex Talk, Self Pleasure, and MORE! (LIVE)
    Jan 25, 2024 – 53:39
  • It's Better to Give... Or Is It?
    Jan 23, 2024 – 01:10:50
  • Christians Cussing During Sex?? (LIVE)
    Jan 18, 2024 – 58:07
  • Let's Get Deep! Sexpisode Part 4
    Jan 16, 2024 – 01:06:48
  • DON'T GET CHRISSY'D (LIVE)
    Jan 11, 2024 – 01:11:06
  • Married Does Not Equal Happy
    Jan 9, 2024 – 01:05:57
  • BRANDI OPEN UP THE DOOR!!! (LIVE)
    Jan 4, 2024 – 44:03
  • I Regret Nothing!
    Jan 2, 2024 – 01:16:42
  • Ask Us Again! Ask R&B Part II
    Dec 29, 2023 – 01:09:13
  • Ask R&B
    Dec 25, 2023 – 59:37
  • Play Your Role Pt. 2 (LIVE)
    Dec 21, 2023 – 54:39
  • Play Your Role
    Dec 19, 2023 – 01:09:40
  • My Kids…Your Kids
    Dec 11, 2023 – 01:18:50
  • 50/50 (LIVE)
    Dec 7, 2023 – 01:12:08
  • It's Just a Phase...
    Dec 5, 2023 – 01:10:49
  • Weak as Creek Water (Live Episode)
    Nov 30, 2023 – 01:12:29
  • For Better or For Worse
    Nov 28, 2023 – 01:07:51
  • Episode Kick-back: Fake It for Me
    Aug 4, 2023 – 01:18:39
  • Fake It for Me!
    Aug 1, 2023 – 01:19:38
  • Episode Kick-Back: No Time for Should've, Would've, Could've
    Jul 27, 2023 – 57:13
  • No Time for Should've, Would've, Could've
    Jul 24, 2023 – 01:12:24
  • Episode Kick-Back: Couch Conversation in Columbus
    Jul 13, 2023 – 47:20
  • Couch Conversation in Columbus
    Jul 11, 2023 – 01:17:49
  • Episode Kick-Back: Cry Me a River
    Jul 7, 2023 – 55:53
Recent Reviews
  • DeeYork1
    Black People Being Great
    Love love love this podcast! The hosts are fun and funny and REAL. It sincerely makes me want to be a better spouse to my husband. Thank y’all for helping me recapture the magic
  • Love 09
    Amazing perspective and transparency
    Extremely refreshing !
  • Terri2931
    Lots of laughs
    I came across you guys from Facebook OMGEE you guys are hilarious. I can’t stop laughing I love how you guys speak you’re truth. I’ve been married twice so I get it!! Looking forward to watching on YouTube.
  • Relliebabeee
    These two are amazing!
    I came across their clips on Tik Tok and decided to check out the podcast and fell in love with it! I found them during a time when I was healing and trying to reconnect with God and they were a great example of a modern Christian couple! They are a reminder that being faithful to God doesn’t mean you’re not having fun or that your life has to be dull. These two are a great example to this generation and I appreciate them for their content. They are absolutely work the listen whether you are single, married, divorced, healing, whatever. Brandi and Russell are a gift from God to us all! ❤️ Love you guys!
  • CharismaticG.
    Real life that no one talks about
    I found this pod from a TikTok clip and knew immediately I needed to listen. The way I’ve listened ever since I found it?!!! Omg!! So relatable and speaks to sooo much no one has ever told us LITERALLY!!!!!! I love this couples take on love and life and has opened my eyes to see im not as different as I think. ❤️❤️❤️
  • ajaydub
    Joy
    This podcast really brings me so much joy! I look forward to each new episode!! I can't wait for the podcast to really take off and soar!
  • hgtubtyioijehshushdydh
    HI!!!!!!!
    Hello Cinco here Russell and Brandis son pls if you can give it a good rating trust me they put a lot of work into there podcasts so if can listen to it If it is not for you than thats ok but if you do like it pls do you best to support it. CINCO OUT !!!!!
  • Raci W.
    Timing
    Being separated when this podcast first started, and now a newly divorced woman, the gems that Brandi & Russel have dropped have really helped and encouraged me♥️ Their topics are real and always seem to air when I’m dealing with or have dealt with what comes up. It’s great! They are so down to earth and VERY comical! I truly enjoy it! Keep it going y’all👍🏽👍🏽
  • kenken ❤️💦
    The Best!! Real. Live. Refreshing
    This podcast is seriously the DOPEST! It’s real UNSCRIPTED conversation about real life matters. You are guaranteed to walk away with something even if it just a laugh! I can’t wait to see what your next season has in store😉 Update: Season 2 is coming through and LEVELED UP!! I appreciate the honesty and transparency on all levels! I’ve been married and with my husband for a loonnnggg time and we still enjoy the conversation and it definitely encourages us to go deeper with one another even still! Peace Fam🌹
  • MissBS86
    Honest and inspirational!!!
    I absolutely love listening to Brandi and Russell! They’re open, honest, funny and intentional about their relationship. WTNTU asks and answers all the hard questions, both personal and in regards to relationships. I always leave the podcast with food for thought.
  • russelldafourth
    Unbiased opinion!! 🤞🏾😂
    This is one of my favorites, a must-listen, and it’s how I start every Tuesday! I’m definitely Brandi’s biggest fan as well‼️🤎
  • James and Nikki Bradley
    Inside out!
    This dynamic couple is a true example of how to love inside out! I heard them mention this in a lot of occasions, but when you see it being manifested in deed and in action, through their relationship, it’s simply amazing! Healthy relationships is so very important and it is not talked about enough. This podcast gives hope to the black community because relationships and all that comes with it is being talked about. People need hear about all of the sticky details, that sometimes are difficult to talk about but necessary. You guys, my friends, are helping people, in our community, and all over the world (I’m speaking it) re-evaluate what true, health and whole relationships look like! Let’s Go!! 5 ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
  • CC babie d
    My new go to playlist, EVERYWHERE I go!!!
    These two are magical together! Their ability to be so transparent, and vulnerable about their own journeys on forbidden topics that the typical conservative Christian would never talk about unless it was behind closed doors is chain shattering. It brings a sense of comfort to all ages, like yeah I too felt like that as well and it’s okay to feel the way I feel. They are LIVING for God and are human, unshamefully and own every once of who they are. I let my high school students listen to them because we should talk about these topics more often. And not to mention that I’m beat red faced and tears from laughing so hard majority of the time. They are HILARIOUS!!!! Oh to be a fly o their wall behind he scenes lol
  • Miesha💜♍️
    Love Love Love❤️
    I absolutely love this podcast! So real and inspiring!!! I look forward to Tuesday’s because after a long day I know I’m going to hear some inspiring words and some humor to go with it!!!
  • Ash*****************
    Bomb podcast
    I never listened to a podcast before listening to WTNTU initially I started listening only because I personally knew both of them…. but as the season went on, I now listen because the topics are very interesting, relatable, honest, and they are believers!!!!! I feel like they give people who have been divorced hope. Not only the divorced but even ways you can incorporate things in your current relationship. If you’re single and you want to learn how to date, if you are married and you want to change up some things. I think it’s good in every aspect, so keep it up Brandy and Russ!!! Proud of you guys, continue to do what you doing. Last thing 😬 I love how the both of you always represent Jesus♥️♥️ WIN WIN
  • eMoney718$
    Don’t miss out!
    I love listening to this podcast. The energy from both hosts is incredible. They are relatable and funny.
  • qczt334
    My Un-Biased Opinion😜
    Yes, I’m one of the hosts! The show is amazing, more than I ever thought it would be. We aim to have conversations that broadened our listeners perspectives on life, love, relationships, healing, and so much more. WTNTU was birthed out of a desire to love deeper, live better, and create community that reaches far beyond physical location.
  • Gsjjbsnikelosbbcuywopqof
    THESE PODCAST GET ME THROUGH MY DAY!
    These two are great together. Always was intriguing topics that keep you engaged. If your looking for a podacast that touches on multiple aspects of life. This is the one for you!😃
  • P. Gray
    Amazing!
    Love the show, and the energy you both bring! Keep it up 👏🏽🙌🏽
  • Ms.MeggyMeg
    🖤🖤
    This the true definition of Raw and Real 🖤🖤
  • wdaphne
    Love the content!
    Congratulations on this journey! Podcasts are my peace so I’m very happy you started one. Awesome subject line. Your chemistry and flow is really complimentary to one another. I look forward to future episodes!
  • MilesYoung
    THE WORLD BETTER GET READY
    GENUINE PEOPLE, MEANINGFUL CONVERSATION, REAL, RAW ——- #HONEST!
  • Only1Teshani
    🔥
    Russ Dae = 🐐
  • Sammyj2012
    Love these two!!!
    I can’t tell you enough how genuine and amazing these two people are!!! I am so proud of them!! 🙌🏼
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