Recent Episodes
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Episode 509: Sharing A Business With Your Cheating Ex
Nov 22, 2024 – 30:41 -
Episode 508: Don't Over-Romanticize Your Ex
Nov 20, 2024 – 24:23 -
Episode 507: You Can't Be Everything To Everyone
Nov 18, 2024 – 34:50 -
Episode 506: Holding The Good With The Bad
Nov 15, 2024 – 26:42 -
Episode 505: The Unfair Burden of Birth Control
Nov 13, 2024 – 31:13 -
Episode 504: I'm Lonely In My Relationship
Nov 11, 2024 – 31:32 -
Episode 503: Are These Friends Safe For You?
Nov 8, 2024 – 28:45 -
Episode 502: My Friend Got Dumped..But It Was Her Fault
Nov 6, 2024 – 33:21 -
Episode 501: You Can Never Be A Perfect Parent
Nov 4, 2024 – 42:41 -
Episode 500: My Mom's Third Marriage
Nov 1, 2024 – 30:27 -
Episode 499: My Boyfriend's Proposal Isn't Romantic Enough
Oct 30, 2024 – 27:11 -
Episode 498: Sexting With My Hot Parisian Tattoo Artist
Oct 28, 2024 – 31:21 -
Episode 497: Avoiding Relationship Burnout
Oct 25, 2024 – 31:28 -
Episode 496: You Don't Trust Him Because He's Proven Himself Untrustworthy
Oct 23, 2024 – 36:37 -
Episode 495: His Ex Still Uses His Netflix
Oct 21, 2024 – 35:05 -
Episode 494: Parenting Yourself When Your Mother Can't
Oct 18, 2024 – 33:23 -
Episode 493: Mr. Fix-It Fixes His Codependency
Oct 16, 2024 – 24:49 -
Episode 492: I Can't Stop Reading Cheating Stories On Reddit
Oct 14, 2024 – 38:32 -
Episode 491: Dating With A Chronic Illness
Oct 11, 2024 – 29:19 -
Episode 490: Why Did He Think You Needed To Know That?
Oct 9, 2024 – 39:32 -
Episode 489: Am I B*tch Or Do I Just Know What I Want?
Oct 7, 2024 – 36:09 -
Episode 488: Kids or No Kids, What's The Plan?
Oct 4, 2024 – 29:00 -
Episode 487: Wanting The Wife And The Mistress Too
Oct 2, 2024 – 31:54 -
Episode 486: If They Like Me, Then Why Can't I See It?
Sep 30, 2024 – 33:38 -
Episode 485: Single, Again
Sep 27, 2024 – 23:11 -
Episode 484: Held Hostage By The Past
Sep 25, 2024 – 31:23 -
Episode 483: You Say Tomato, I Say TomaNO
Sep 23, 2024 – 30:16 -
Episode 482: Choosing No Love Over Broken Love
Sep 20, 2024 – 32:47 -
Episode 481: My Friends Are Hanging Out Without Me!
Sep 18, 2024 – 30:16 -
Episode 480: My Friend Is Marrying Her Abuser
Sep 16, 2024 – 30:31 -
Episode 479: Dating Across Economic Class
Sep 13, 2024 – 31:36 -
Episode 478: You Deserve A Love That Thrives In The Light
Sep 11, 2024 – 23:46 -
Episode 477: Being The Sober Friend
Sep 9, 2024 – 32:56 -
Episode 476: I Love To See You In My Sweatshirt
Sep 6, 2024 – 31:09 -
Episode 475: Healing From Harassment In the Workplace
Sep 4, 2024 – 35:37 -
Episode 474: Bisexual FOMO
Sep 2, 2024 – 33:54 -
Episode 473: You Will Be Able To Love Again
Aug 30, 2024 – 28:39 -
Episode 472: Should I End My Marriage After Two Months?
Aug 28, 2024 – 28:41 -
Episode 471: One Big Pill Or Fifty Spiky Ones
Aug 26, 2024 – 43:05 -
Episode 470: Into The Unknown! (AKA Dating in Your 30s)
Aug 23, 2024 – 27:06 -
Episode 469: Riding The Waves Of His Mood Swings
Aug 21, 2024 – 30:00 -
Episode 468: Accepting Their Scraps Of Love
Aug 19, 2024 – 38:26 -
Episode 467: I Might Break Up With A Lifelong Friend
Aug 16, 2024 – 32:29 -
Episode 466: Rock Bottom Stone Top
Aug 14, 2024 – 31:35 -
Episode 465: I'm Jealous Of A Clown Doll Replica Of My Partner
Aug 12, 2024 – 41:10 -
Episode 464: Is Getting Married Young A Bad Idea?
Aug 9, 2024 – 25:50 -
Episode 463: His Bad Behavior Isn't Your Fault
Aug 7, 2024 – 27:19 -
Episode 462: The 51% Approach
Aug 5, 2024 – 32:43 -
Episode 461: Broken Up But Not Moved Out
Aug 2, 2024 – 29:29 -
Episode 460: Will They Do The Vulnerable Work With You?
Jul 31, 2024 – 27:51
Recent Reviews
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Mdj468216This podcast HEALS MEI can only afford therapy once a week but Sam & Sierra provide the most loving, empathetic, experienced, and WISE words I always need to hear, even if the particular topic doesn’t relate to my life. I have learned SO MUCH from these two. I’ve literally written down things they’ve said and repeat them to myself. Thank ALL THE GODS for them, they make my life so much better :’) <33333
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LalaoochieLove!I love this show and have been a listener since day one, I haven’t missed an episode! At this point I would love if they would talk more about their personal lives, or at least let their guards down a little because I’m invested! I always enjoy episodes where we learn more things about them that we didn’t know before, and talking through their personal struggles without so much censoring would add a little extra depth I think (but maybe that’s just my parasocial relationship with them talking lol). Anyways, they clearly work hard for this and I’m so glad they’ve kept this going!
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andrewreyes1992Going through a break up.Im having a very emotional, mentally and physically hard time with a break up I am going through. Im looking for some confidence and ways to teach me to let go and move on.
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hannandchris<3 my queer bestiesI so look forward to putting on this podcast while I work, on the commute home, or when I just need some advice. I adore Sam and Sierra’s friendship and different takes on the letters. I submitted a letter and it would be awesome if they read it, but at the same time just writing it was so therapeutic. I’m doing a lot of head and heart work right now and this podcast is really helping me navigate everything. You two are beautiful humans and the space that you have created for listeners is safe, supportive, and nonjudgmental. Thank you both for this amazing podcast!
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JadeMijaIn My Main RotationLong time listener here and I love these guys! Sam, Sierra, and Spencer have created such a great resource for us. These episodes have helped me navigate so many real life situations. Thank you JBU!
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imnatthomasHelpful paradigm shift!I think this podcast is excellent! The hosts are amazing!
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알라데이아Amazing podcast!I love you both!! I get positive energy from you and I can relate to almost every episode. Thank you for giving all of your sincere advice :-)🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
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kayleighnotkaylieA Must for Dealing with Break-UpsI recently got out of an 8 year relationship and engagement and was looking to find relationship podcasts to start my healing process. It’s only been a week since I started listening to “Just Break Up” and I’m completely blown away at how thoughtful every episode is. The answers from the incredibly charming hosts are both insightful and comforting. I know they’re not licensed therapists but they’ve been so helpful - even more helpful than some therapists I’ve seen. Highly, highly recommend!
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LBIVONNEMehI started listening to this podcast because the topics seemed interesting and relatable . The more I listened the more I became bothered by the hosts not holding people accountable and being unrealistically positive . I do understand they have a disclaimer at the beginning stating that they are not trained mental health professionals but I think they should invite guests who are trained and are equipped with the proper skills to discuss such topics .
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speakfearlesslyHighly RecommendI love this podcast SO much. Sam and Sierra are so kind and compassionate in their responses while also offering amazing advice. A wonderful complement to therapy!
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Kate CornCool kids learn how to grow and think outside themselvesSomehow I can relate to almost every episode - I’ve been a loyal listener for about 8 months now and I just love this podcast. Thank you Sam and Sierra!
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jac083Life changingSalmon Sierra (iykyk) have changed my perspective on relationships and helped me so much to look internally and do the head and heart work to show up for myself and others. 5/5 recommend
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AnonymousikksdkdGoing downhillIt used to be a great show. It’s getting exceedingly political and racist. Contrary to the name. Rarely, do they talk about breaking up, dealing with a breakup or recommend that anyone break up.
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Mrs dictatorExcellentFantastic entertainment. Great commentary, great hosts.
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skm.murrayAllllll the toolsThis podcast has been incredibly helpful in reframing how I handle relationships in every category; family, friends, love and work relationships. Sam and Sierra are so comforting and provide countless tools to use in my daily life. I’ve matured so much as a person both internally (self love) and externally in how I interact with the people in my life. I’m so grateful to them. I recommend this show to everyone. Listen now and change your life!
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KBG4242Life ChangingI listen to this podcast every single Monday. I started in 2020 and have covered all of the episodes, some more than once. It’s my emotional support podcast! Sam, Sierra, and everyone who has written has helped me do my own head and heart work for years now. I love y’all! ♥️
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RollCBBest podcast everI’m obsessed please never stop making this! So helpful and can’t even explain how much hearing the letters make me feel so much less alone, I really appreciate you guys for making this
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allisonshoeiiiiGreat advice; aren't as inclusive to disabled people as they claimChanging my 5 star star rating from a 5 to a 2. I love sam and sierra and they have significantly impacted my life in every way (positively) with their heartfelt and true advice. I change my rating to a 2 because they are all talk but fail to show up in a meaningful way for disabled people, that's just something to keep in mind.
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Conn MelMy favorite podcastI B love the energy! the podcast structure.
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MMary246Loveeee!!!!One of the most validating podcasts!
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thankucoolpeepsAwesome folksSierra & Sam, thank you.
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becca123444567Lovely show! Fun hosts!Amazing amazing amazing podcast! So sweet, so lovely, so comforting, so funny. This has quickly become my go-to comfort podcast. It’s just a joy to listen to and perfect for anyone navigating dating, going through breakups, interested in therapy discussions, etc. it’s just so sweet and helpful!
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wolfslothxReminds me to be kind to myself and others!I love this podcast! I found them last year and would listen to them the whole time I was working. Sam and Sierra feel like your friends, and they know how to give you the tough love while still validating your feelings. Sometimes when I am feeling down, I listen to them and they cheer me up! They remind me to be kinder to myself and others and they actually taught me to be less judgmental! I have grown so much because of them and would even bring up lessons I learned from them in my therapy sessions! Would definitely recommend this podcast!
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kysophimy comfort peoplei’ve been listening since this podcast came out & i absolutely LOVE LOVE LOVE sam & sierra. i’ve learned a lot about growing healthy relationships with myself & others. i can’t thank them enough <3 they always lift my mood & make my day so much better <33
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XahreeGood &...A good pod full of positivity and... Perpetuates compassion for the conditioning of white supremacy rather than calling out and unpacking how it shows up in them as white ppl. It is not enough to look at The Systemic, when it is we, the individuals, that perpetuate its existence in our daily lives.
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anonymous listener :)Just Break Up is the bestI love Sam and Sierra. I’ve been listening to them for 3 years, they are consistently wonderful.
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CarinneFrom an OG listenerI’ve been listening to this podcast since the very first episode and the most recent episode (186- Where are they now?) had me in tears. It brought me so much joy to hear the voices from the letters I remember Sam and Sierra reading and hear the healing that the writers clearly found over the years. It was also hilarious to hear S&S react to their own advice. 🤣
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heydollitsmekrisToo politicalI really wanted to like this show but there’s quite a few episodes that are political and I don’t like to have that in my podcasts
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JeyseasActually great.Absolutely great speakers and advicers. Favorite “love” dedicated podcast I’ve listened to by real real far.
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Roti.BLove love loveMy favorite podcast to listen to when I need good practical advice. I love how thoughtful Sam and Sierra are when they take us through the answers to listener questions. Don’t know what I’do without these two!
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lindberg fanThank you both for existing!!I love both Sierra and Sam’s laughs. They are so cute, hilarious, and totally inspirational 😘❤️
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Jdbeigjavdjgnehs❤️I love this podcast. Especially Sierra’s laugh. And Sam’s laugh! I love when they laugh together. Love when they make me laugh. Hahaha
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mkcmkcmkcmkcOne of my very favesGreat show! Sam and Sierra share so much wisdom, have a great rapport, and always introduce me to inspiring and fresh perspectives. Love the new series of interviews with guests, too!!
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b_alice121Changed my lifeThis podcast found me at such a serendipitous time in my life. I can say that listening to Sam and Sierra’s humble musings guided me toward the courage to cut a relationship out of my life that was no longer serving me. That being said, I recommend this even if you are in a healthy relationship or not. Even if you don’t think you’ll relate to the letter writers’ various situations, you probably will still learn something new. Sam and Sierra get to the heart of the issue. The language and tools that they use (attachment styles, abundant/scarcity mindset, etc) frequently repeat throughout their advice providing a foundation to discuss and discern all sorts of sticky situations (romantic and not!). Thank you Sam and Sierra.
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keeplaughing6969LaughSierra and Sam both have lovely laughs. If I could get an mp3 of just the laughs, I would play it on repeat. Music to my ears! Listening to the podcast always makes me feel happier and more confident. Also got a letter answered and listened to the response so many times, it’s really helped me. Keep it up you two 🥰
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NicoleR12792I love your smileSierra, I just opened my app, found the reviews and am writing all of this this simply to tell you how much I genuinely love your laugh. Don’t let 3 star person stop you from spreading your happy. -Nicole
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helenandhenriSierra’s laugh is amazingThis is my all time favorite podcast. I call it “going to church “ y’all always give the tough love or the sweet affirmation needed. Also I can’t help but laugh every time Sierra laughs 💜 her laugh is amazing.
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emazterBeen listening for 2 years !I’ve been listening for almost 2 years religiously! I can’t wait for Monday morning for this reason! The only thing that bothers me is the therapy jargon. For example “boundaries” “trigger” words like these that don’t actually mean anything and are really cringey. But other than that I love this podcast! Learned so much
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imiginkikA gym membership for your soulThis podcast has turned my perspective on life around, from initiating healing over past relationships and trauma, to being a more mindful and empathetic human being in the world. I find myself much more happy and satisfied with life thanks to them! Sam and Sierra have some of the best podcast chemistry that warms my heart to listen to every week. Also, I love both Sam’s and Sierra’s very genuine and beautiful laughs :)
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Skyler ^.^My favorite podcastThese hosts are just so kind to everyone who writes in. I love this podcast, I started listening to it when my relationship was bad and I realized that I wasn’t getting what I needed. Thank you for getting me out of mediocrity! The hosts are so helpful and I listen to this podcast as a way to relax. They have great voices, too. I’m going back and listening to the old episodes in reverse chronological order and I’m on episode #50, so it’s definitely worth binging 😅
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annasynchOne of my favorite Podcasts of all time ❤️Words can’t explain how much I love this podcast! It is a safe place to listen, learn, grow, and heal. Sam & Sierra are truly amazing humans!!
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Podcast_lystenerdListen to one episode and be hooked foreverThis is now one of my weekly essentials. It’s funny, compassionate, insightful, and Sierra and Sam have natural and gorgeous rapport.
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kate! :DLOVE this show!Honestly love everything about this show and the hosts, Sam and Sierra. I recommend this podcast to literally anyone who will listen and it has helped me develop a more healthy outlook on relationships and moving on from them. Thanks guys! You’ll are the BEST! Much love ❤️
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katherine the gr8Just what I needed“Just Break Up” offers the exact insight, warmth, and friendship vibes that I needed in a podcast focused on relationships and ‘head and heart work’. Discussions that Sam and Sierra (aka Salmon Sierra) have together and with guests have helped me communicate better in my own relationships, and give language to topics I’ve wanted to discuss in my own therapy journey. Love you JBU!!!
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auntbeebuzzThank youThank you for showing me how to understand and be accepting of others. Your podcast has opened my eyes, my mind and my heart. ♥️
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EmmiFortinLove the adviceSierra and Sam have such a natural flow in their topics and convos- love the advice “identify your own red flags” lol, so true.
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chjddjjxvkmcxnkgdnkxcLaughI can't handle the laugh of the girl. It is just annoying it's so fake certain name. I really wanted to see your contacts but that laugh I just can't get past it.
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NicoleC211Comes from a place of loveContent is enjoyable, relatable and you can tell it comes from a place of love. Love you guys!
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maycg95Basically like therapyDon’t worry - I also go to real therapy, but that’s just how affirming and wonderful Sam and Sierra are!
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Samantha R. CThe best podcast I never knew I needed until I REALLY did.I started listening to this podcast as a self help tool for myself in a toxic relationship. Sierra and Sam were the captains on my life raft and I wouldn’t be anywhere near where I am without them, or this podcast. It gave me all the tools I didn’t realize I needed and all the ones I’ve been looking for my entire life. It let me leave that relationship and work on myself and I ended up finding someone that does everything to exude all the pillars that the JBU podcast stands on. I don’t even listen on Apple podcasts, but if one show deserves a five star review, it is this. I could never thank you guys enough.
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